The Discipline of Refusal
“The essence of strategy is choosing what not to do.” - Michael Porter It's a familiar event to anyone who has worked with a tech team. You have work well along on a project when a stakeholder comes along asking for "just one more feature." If you are the project manager or product manager, people will look to you for guidance. You know that capacity is full, tradeoffs are real, the roadmap will bend, and something inevitably will break. Yet, the pressure is subtle (or non-so-subtle, depending on the stakeholder). There's an expectation, perhaps, that you'll say that the team can make it work, suggest that all are aligned, and acknowledge that this is an important feature. So, you say "yes." Six weeks or less later, you find that delivery slips, quality drops, morale dips, and trust is now eroded. Leadership is not only about what you drive forward. It’s about what you refuse to absorb. We need to be clear that saying "no" is not obstruction....