The Visual Basic Joke That Taught Me About Earning Engineers' Trust
Three months into my first project management role at a software company, I watched a colleague destroy his credibility in thirty seconds. The engineering team was discussing a legacy system bug, and someone cracked a joke about Visual Basic. My fellow PM laughed loudly and nodded knowingly, clearly trying to signal that he was technically savvy enough to get it. The problem was obvious to everyone in the room: he had no idea what they were talking about. The engineers exchanged glances, and I could practically see his authority evaporate. That moment crystallized something I'd been sensing for weeks. Walking into a team of skeptical engineers as a new project manager feels like entering a room where everyone speaks a different language and you're holding a phrase book upside down. These developers had been burned before by PMs who talked a big game but delivered bureaucracy instead of value. Some had been working without any project management oversight and genuinely questione...